Here, guys dish on photos, profiles, and all the things you’re doing right and wrong to get their attention.
You don’t have to overhaul your strategy based off of these guys' thoughts, but if you’re in a rut, take some tips right from the stallion’s mouth.“When you have too many pictures with family members, it makes us think you’re going to drag us to family functions early on.
Balance the family photos with you doing something fun—like hanging out at a stadium—so I have a better idea of what our time together will be like.” –James, 42“If the woman’s photos are only with friends, I automatically think she is shy and insecure about her looks.
I would like to see a confident picture of her by herself doing something she loves.
I am usually completely wiped out by the end of the day, and most of my friends are too.
Cultivating a dynamic and thriving lifestyle and social circle is even MORE crucial here in NYC given the three factors listed above. AND, I show you exactly how to set-up your lifestyle and social circle so that it FEEDS you women.
And yet, large numbers of young women admit their private lives are a sad mess. In a nutshell, over the past few decades, the traditional relationship exchange has broken down. Men couldn't get steady access to sex unless they had resources to offer, so they worked hard for them. This is the premise of a bracing new book, , by American sociologist Mark Regnerus.
If you're a gender studies major, stop reading here. It used to be that men and women each had something the other really needed. The partnership between men and women was a grand bargain that (usually) left both sides better off. The price tag was a long-term commitment to provide for a woman (and children). Sex got cheap because of three technological developments: the advent of the Pill, which divorced fertility from sex; the onset of mass-produced, high-quality pornography; and the arrival of online dating sites, which make it easy for men to find willing sex partners.
(Just look at the lopsided university graduation rates, which are now around 60-40).The marriage rate is falling steadily, especially among the lower middle class, while long-term stable marriage is increasingly a privilege reserved for the better off.A lot of women seem to have their act together these days. "I think the greatest, most astonishing fact that I am aware of in social science right now is that women have been able to hear the labour market screaming out 'You need more education'…They can get all the sex they want anyway – including online porn on demand that can make the real thing feel mildly disappointing. You'll get an earful.) Like it or not, women have always been the gatekeepers for sex – not because they don't like sex, too, but because (no matter what you learned in gender studies) men's sex drive is innately higher. "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Women are just another consumer good in the shop window. "Good husband material doesn't occur naturally, but is instead the product (in part) of socialization, development, and social control," Mr. "[I]n the domain of sex and relationships men will act as nobly as women collectively demand." Time to get our act together, ladies. I am chasing my dream, working my tail off, and my days are JAMMED with meetings, activities, calls, appointments etc.