No matter how in love you are at the beginning, inevitably fears will emerge, such as fear of rejection/abandonment, and fear of engulfment/losing yourself.
One person's protective, controlling behavior sets off the other's protective, controlling behavior, and it isn't long before the in-love feelings start to diminish.
If you are a non-smoker, it's important to be honest with yourself about whether it's OK with you if your partner smokes.
If not, you may need to walk away, since you can never be certain whether he or she will stop. If these behaviors are not OK with you, it is unlikely that the relationship will work. Work If both of you have jobs that are very important to you, what would happen if one of you got a great job offer in another city?
I suggest you that move on if you find out that your partner is currently cheating on you -- unless you both go into counseling and do the deep work necessary to heal the underlying issues. Money If one of you is a saver and one is a spender, this can cause many relationship problems.
Sometimes this can be solved ahead of time when the spender agrees to let the saver manage the money.
You've finally met someone who seems to be the partner of your dreams.
You are very attracted to each other, you like many of the same things and you can spend hours talking.
People who are neat generally can't tolerate messiness, and people who are messy feel controlled and restricted by people who are neat.Examples of list songs (and their composers/performers) include the following.Songs are in alphabetical order by title (omitting the definite article where not important to the title).Remember, you get what you see -- not what the person tells you will happen in the future. For example, Robert and Celia fell in love in their late 30s.Each had jobs that they loved and that were very important to them.