Investing a deep level of thinking into something that’s gone and that you have no control over, is a waste.It’s also important to recognise that aside from relationships serving to teach us about ourselves, changing you in the equation doesn’t change them.Note: If you have been the victim of domestic violence, please e-mail me and tell me about it. The problem we are having is finding an attorney to deal with this sort of case, We have contacted every person we can think of to guide us in how to proceed on this, i have been ignored by everyone turned away by all media groups,news paper reporters claiming there is no story, Bianca Prieto reported Bobby as being first homicide in 2012, but has since told us When we get juicier info on the case let her know. NCRA was no longer interested in speaking with me as soon as I told them we didn't have an attorney.
You might be thinking about what happened in your relationship and pondering the coulda, woulda, shoulda. You may be thinking that you wanted them to be the right person and that you don’t want to have to try again.
Playing the coulda, woulda, shoulda game is basically living in the past while taking no responsibility for the present and beyond.
The truth is that we could all have done many things differently but that time has passed.
Of all the productive things you could be doing for yourself, this isn’t one of them.
It’s unlikely that you like pain but you’ve become used to being invested in feeling bad.